Have ever felt deprivation of love in your life ?….don’t know about you but yes I have most of the time, the reason being I stay in a hostel away from my family and your roommate can rarely turn out to be your true love…calling your roomy your best friend is rare. So what do you do to get love …cry, try to find love in the outside world or may be in the opposite sex? Most of the time you successfully find love in any other guy or girl only to find out that he/she was a liar or betrayed you like anything. Then your last resort of love turns out to be God, you say no one on this cheeky earth is for anyone. Whining day in and day out it never dawns upon you that the things or the people who actually loved you or are still loving you unconditionally are constantly being ignored. You cry a little bit more saying that you suddenly have realized the value of having all family members with you all the time, hardly noticing the fact that even animals leave their parents after a certain age. So where are we the lonely, doleful, melancholy creatures are supposed to find love?

I read a book on the power of subconscious mind, in which the author says my subconscious is my servant and will do anything for me if I’ll ask for. Believing that I asked my subconscious mind “where do I find true love?”. Surprisingly my subconscious reverted back. It made me notice the things around me that offered unconditional love to me without even asking me to love them back. Interesting right?! Suddenly I have so much love, it begin with my bed that openly let me sleep on its big lap without even complaining if I twist and turned a lot, my mirror that showed me the real picture of me without any artfulness, my bag that carried all my stuff from a little safety pin(it must have poked my bag several times but it never said an ouch!)to the heaviest of my books ,the hostel cook who is always ready with my lunch, dinner and breakfast on time, that bhaiya Ji who swept and moped my room everyday, those trees out there in the garden that protected me from the glaring sun during those scorching , blistering afternoon walks, those birds out there singing a lovely song just to lift up my mood, that slushy gentle wind that caressed my face and hair with its soft hands. The epiphany was so bigger that my life suddenly felt over brimming with true love, so much that I can share it with many others and that too without any condition.

Thinking about this my eyes welled up, I looked above in the sky to the God and apologized heartily feeling sorry for whining and complaining, about the thing that he gave me in abundance. Now I look around me and see nothing but love, overflowing out of everything and the most important thing that I found which is full of that unconditional love is my own body and soul.

So if at all you too feel the scarcity of love in your life like I did, then I’ve got a wonderful deal for you, with 100% results guaranteed. All you need to do is to take following easy steps to let the love flow through your life like million gallons of oceanic water. Are you ready?

The very first step would begin with an old clichéd saying that “ charity begins at home”, it means to find love outside first you need to discover a loved buried deep inside you craving to come out and hug you so tightly like never leaving you alone. Second, practice gratitude …say thanks to the people who are the part of your everyday life and help you the complete your day successfully, a small squeaky smile of yours can do that. Stop ignoring the things around you, all the little things really matter. That so-called lover of yours can’t break your heart anyway until and unless you allow him/her to. You only need to realize that they had a momentary chance to enjoy the shower of elixir inside you and since their time is over too soon they have to leave, pity!

Stop finding happiness outside, whatever you want is inside you, you have got two parts of your brain conscious and subconscious, one of which plans stuff for you and the other which make things happen. When you already have so much to give and receive there’s no fun crying about it. So just look into the mirror, smile and see how much love is inside and around you. You must be feeling heavily stuffed with love right now, isn’t that awesome?! so much love ehh…XD.